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How to stop being JEALOUS of other women and their successes
January 22, 2020

An easy hack to stop being JEALOUS of other women’s successes

 
It was 8.42 AM.

Though our TV was on for a while, nothing really registered until Elizabeth Warren said about Bloomberg something along these lines: “He skipped the democracy part of shaking hands with people and getting to know their issues. He just jumped in with bunch of money pushing his agenda.”

Regardless of any political biases, I thought the point was interesting as it fully related to what most solopreneurs inexperienced in marketing did online every day.

They spend all kinds of money on tools, courses, ads etc… to “push” their reasons on why their service is better, superior, cheaper, or whatever, from all other peeps in the marketplace offering the same thing, while completely and utterly ignoring the feedback from the same people they expect to be buying their stuff.

Why does that happen?

Well sometimes they believe that it is so obvious (to them) what market really wants there is no reason to get the feedback and learn the real issues and then sometimes they don’t realize that market fluctuates, changes, and has a life, and language of its own.

And it is and it does.

Not plugging into the marketplace and not getting intimately familiar with the fears, thoughts, concerns, dreams, and goals of your audience will turn all your messages, ads, campaigns into just more noise market already has enough off.

If you’re finding yourself getting frustrated with:

- getting lumped by your audience into the same group with all the rest of people selling the same stuff you are selling

- not getting a chance to show how you and your service is different

- not being able to tell your your story in a different way - in a way that you will get heard

it’s a time for you to first start paying attention to what your audience really wants and how they want you to sell it to them.

You have to start listening to your market, before marketing will be willing to listen to you.

There top 3 things to keep in mind while researching your market, a formula to be exact:

1) Ask those that would ordinarily pay for your service. For example: ask your past clients, current clients, and/or reach out to your ideal clients you’d like to have. Skip your friends and family, they may not be the best source of information.

2) Give something in return, don’t just take, take, take. You can create surveys or ask in person but always offer freebies: maybe tips, an assessment, or a coaching session, or a small service

3) Be prepared. Create questions in advance so you’re comfortable with what you need to ask next, make sure you take good notes, and get clear on answers you’re getting. Do not assume you know what they meant - ask and clarify.

You and I both know you have great skills that can create impact for your clients. Just imagine if you could say it in a different way that would make them notice you more and finally hear what you have to say in a way that would resonate with them.

In a way they would get it.

… and want it.

Go implement this 3 step formula and see what happens.

 
 
GET MORE CLIENTS by getting crystal clear about your message:

- get on your ideal clients' radar, so you can get noticed and have THEM start reaching out TO YOU
- have them see you as an expert you really are, so they are eager to buy from you and you get yeses more often
- become their obvious choice so you can stop worrying about competition and create regular stream of new clients
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